People who know me know that I am not the most socially comfortable human. I often feel out of place and frequently wish I were invisible (cue Clay Aiken). The reason I bring any of this up is because I've noticed over the past few years that one of the few times I feel completely confident and in my element is when I'm traveling. I love solving the puzzle of a new city and figuring out public transportation in another language. And I especially love eating mysterious foods. Somehow, when I'm thrown completely out of my comfort zone, I feel pretty dang comfy.
When I met Matt, I had just gotten back from spending the summer in Uganda. Just a few hours before our first date, I had an interview that ultimately led to my study abroad in Spain. Two months on the Equator and four months in the Mediterranean made me seriously consider selling everything I owned and becoming a nomad. I found myself floating down the Nile daydreaming about becoming certified as a river rafting guide and chasing rapids the rest of my life. In Madrid, I once thought about joining the circus. (Why do all of my fantasy lives require feats of strength?)
Matt and I had been dating for a few months before I went to Spain, and while I was there I was terrible at journal writing, but I was exceptional at email writing. In between professing my long-distance love, I'd wax poetic about mosques and ice cream and museums. At least once a week, I'd make Matt promise that we'd go back together someday.
Last year, when winter was raging along with my wanderlust, I sat down by the only window in our basement apartment and thought about where I wanted to go. Obviously the answer was the entire world, but that felt a bit broad so I temporarily shelved my plans of trekking around South America and Asia and instead focused on Europe. I wanted to get back to Spain, Matt wanted to get back to Italy (where he served his mission), and we both had long lists of European dreams. Who doesn't?
We talked about our plans all year, asked for travel gear for Christmas, and now we're set to blow part of our savings (and some graduation gifts from our parents) and hop on a plane the day after we both graduate from BYU. If I were telling you about this in person right now I would be talking really fast and loud and you would be fully frightened by my enthusiasm. I've already burst into excited tears twice (I'm crazy) since we booked our flights and bought our train passes.
You might think we've lost our minds when you see how much we're trying to pack into an eight-week backpacking trip, but we both decided that now is a good time in our lives for a whirlwind sampler tour. We know that a few days in each place is hardly enough to even break the surface of a culture—and that's a bummer—but we hope that someday we'll get to go back to some of these places. Hopefully this trip will help us narrow down our favorites.
This is the path we're planning on taking:
Turkey: Istanbul
Greece: Santorini
Italy (Our Italy plans are pretty up in the air. We've both been there before and Matt speaks the language, so we kind of want to just take it day-by-day once we're there.)
Czech Republic: Prague
Austria: Vienna, Graz
Croatia: Krka National Park, Split
Morocco: Tangier, Marrakech
Spain: Seville, Granada, Madrid, Barcelona (We'll hopefully be stopping in some smaller towns too along the way. I'm super excited to brush up on my Spanish.)
Southern France: Arles, Marseille, Chamonix
Switzerland: Geneva, Interlaken/Lauterbrunnen, Lucerne
Southern Germany: Neuschwanstein, Munich
France: Paris/Versailles
Belgium: Brussels, Bruges
Netherlands: Amsterdam
Germany (This is still pretty un-planned.)
Denmark: Copenhagen
Sweden: Gothenburg
Norway: Oslo, Bergen, smaller fjords near Bergen
Iceland: Reykjavik, Blue Lagoon, etc.
We're feeling really fortunate and grateful that we get to do something like this, and we want to take advantage of it as best we can. We've already done quite a bit of research, but we'd really love suggestions from anyone who's been to any of the places on our list or has suggestions for nearby must-sees. Even though a lot of our itinerary includes bigger cities, we really want to spend days and half-days in smaller towns as we move from place to place. Especially as we travel north toward Scandinavia we're not really sure which towns should be at the top of our list.
We're traveling primarily by train, with a flight and a bus ride thrown in here and there. And we'll be staying at hostels and the occasional Airbnb (this one we're especially excited about!). We've got a pretty strict budget in place and even though cheap is basically the antithesis of Europe, we're going to do our best.
Honestly we're pretty flexible, and very few of those destinations are absolutely set in stone at this point. So help some peeps out and give us your best European advice! If it's really good advice I might make you cookies.


Sounds like an insanely amazing trip. I wish I could fit in your backpack.
ReplyDeleteA couple of thoughts (feel free to disregard, I'm sure some people might tell you the opposite, and these were just my experiences):
I spent five days in Geneva and was kind of very underwhelmed. For starters, a can of coke cost about 4 euro... everything is silly expensive. Everything. And I felt like there just wasn't that much cool stuff to see. Zurich was cool, but I would have been happy to only spend one day there. If you want to go to Switzerland, I would consider making it a half-day stop on your train route if you can. (Though I've never been to Bern, Lucerne, or Interlaken, so maybe that will be awesome.)
Brussels was also pretty boring. Another location I would have been happy to spend much less time in. I liked the waffles, they were delicious. But I will likely not return. I'd way rather spend any extra hour or two in Paris.
When you're in Istanbul, I'm guessing you'll definitely go to the Grand Bazaar, which is fun but slightly touristy, but DO NOT MISS the Spice Bazaar. Equally cool and you're more likely to find cheaper and more authentic treasures that you'll want to bring home. Definitely pay the $30 and get an authentic Turkish bath. One of the coolest things I've ever done. Bring a bikini if you're squeamish about being naked in public. If you're a light sleeper, consider staying in a hotel that's not directly next door to a mosque so that you won't get woken up by the call to prayer at sunrise. Also do not miss Ephesus, it's easiest to get there from Istanbul though it does take the whooolllle day. And this is touristy but I thought it was really fun to ride a boat over to the Asia side to say you've done it.
And you should talk to my sister Emily about Germany, they lived there for a year and she has great travel tips.
HAVE FUN I'M SO JEALOUS
Thanks, Alex! That's exactly the kind of stuff we were hoping to hear. You're not the first person who's told me that Geneva isn't all that great. Honestly we're only planning on a half-day or a few hours because it's on our way. We found a great hostel for cheap in Lauterbrunnen (20 min from Interlaken) which looks unreal. I'm mostly excited for outdoorsy things in the Alps. Really good to know about Brussels. Maybe that will just be a quick stop as well, especially if Emily can help us make a Germany plan! Also, I am so out of my mind excited for Istanbul. I hope we have time for Ephesus, but we'll do all those other things FOR SURE. Seriously, thanks so much! (I wish you could fit in our backpacks too because I would make you take one million pictures for us.)
DeleteSIGH!!! we need to plan a group trip to italy in four to six years. can't wait to live vicariously through your pics.
DeleteWOW! I am so pumped for you and Matt. You are going to love this time in Europe.
ReplyDeleteThe very first thing I want to say is: don't feel bad about what you don't see / visit / pay for / could have done. There is no way to do it all. There are many aspects of traveling Europe that happen the way they do because of the season you're there for, the group you're with, the schedule and route that you have, etc. So someone's awesome recommendation miiiiight not go the same for you, and that's ok! That's how traveling goes. As you well know, I'm sure :)
So! As Alex said, my husband Nate and I lived in Germany from 2012-2013, and we visited several of the cities on your list, as well as a few others. I would loooove to go through my notes and write up some advice / ideas! I will spend time on it over the weekend since I am working today and tomorrow. Will you send me an email so that I can reply with my recommendations? I am SO excited for you guys! Eek! I'm starting to freak out already and I'm not even going haha :)
You are the best! For some reason our Germany plan is really eluding us, so I can't wait to hear what you have to say. I'll send you an email asap!
DeleteI wanted to leave my comment through facebook, but don't see that as an option, so here it is again: When in Copenhagen jump on the train to Odense, where I was born, and so was Hans Christian Andersen, a must see turist stop, walk the streets where Matt's grandmother and great grandparents lived and walked. So did his cousins Peter (with Synthesis Jazz tour) and Jalena,(served mission) his uncles Boyd, John Steve and Michael have been there as well. I would love to see pictures of you in my home town. Good luck! Love to both, Grandma Tove
ReplyDeleteHi Jessica! I'm one of your creepy social media stalkers that you've never met in person. I only know you because of Matt (we were both in advertising and we took a few classes together)...
ReplyDeleteI'm hoping that you can give me some advice on European travel now that you've completed this amazing trip! My husband and I are hoping to travel to Italy, Vienna, Budapest, and possibly Prague in May/June of next year. Any advice on when the best time to buy tickets would be? I'm finding some pretty killer deals now, but am curious to know if earlier really is better, or if I could get tickets cheaper in a couple months?
Once we're over in Europe, if we're only planning on being there for 10-20 days, what's the best way to travel to and from the different countries? Would you recommend getting a Eurail pass or stick to airline flights since we won't be there as long?
Any other secrets or tips you could offer would be awesome! Thanks!
Hey! Haha I sort of feel like we've met because we have so many mutual friends/acquaintances. Not creepy at all. Also I'm so excited for your trip! That sounds like such a good itinerary. I really wish we'd had time for Budapest.
DeleteFirst of all, May and June are the BEST time to go to Europe in my opinion. So good choice there. As far as flights go, we got really lucky and it wasn't necessarily due to any great planning on our part. Because of graduation and some family events, we weren't able to finalize our travel dates til early March (only two months before we left). We ended up finding an insane deal on our flight to Istanbul (British Airways, only 1 short layover, less than $600 a ticket) by sheer luck. We used Google Flights to search and ended up booking through a somewhat sketchy looking site called Fare Depot. We called British Airways a few days later to confirm that we were actually in the system because the price was so good we thought it might be a scam. Also, we flew out of Las Vegas because it was worth it to drive the five hours to save nearly a grand on flight costs, so check any airports that you'd be willing to drive to! For our flight home, we narrowed down three possible options. We were either going to spend our last week in Scandinavia or the British Isles, so we price compared flights out of London, Dublin, Stockholm, Gothenburg, and Iceland. The flight from Iceland turned out to be about half as much as the other options, even including an extra flight from Norway to Reykjavik. So that made our decision easy.
So, LONG story short on flights: I guess my best advice is to be as flexible as possible and price check between airports. Sorry I'm not much help on knowing when to buy. We got really lucky last minute, but if that stresses you out then you may want to jump on something sooner. Also, some airlines will refund you the difference if the price drops, so that's something you could check into.
As far as getting around Europe, I'd actually say for that amount of time a rental car would really be ideal. They are actually surprisingly inexpensive IF you can pick it up and drop it off in the same country. The country change fees are insane. (If you find cheap flights to Austria, that would be a good central place to start and end.) Because we were going from one end of the continent to the other, there was no way a rental car would've worked for us for the whole time. We price checked everything before and the Eurail pass for sure made the most sense for us. You'll just want to see if you'll use it enough to make it worth it. The trains were super convenient and great for napping, but there were a lot of times when I wished we could stop at every cute little town we saw out our train window. Having a car might not be the best for actually getting around the bigger cities, but it would be so nice for getting to see the out of the way places. You could also totally do flights, but a lot of the cheaper airlines only have 1-3 flights a week, so that could limit your options. Also most airports aren't really near the city center, so we found that on flying days we pretty much didn't do anything but spend time getting to the airport, waiting at the airport, flying, and then getting to where we were staying. Even a two hour flight felt like it took up our whole day. If the drive is under 6-7 hours, I'd totally choose a car or train. The countryside is UNREAL in that part of Europe. Another option is to just have a car for the Vienna/Prague/Budapest part (all within 2-4 hours of each other), and then use the train in Italy. Italy for sure had the most laid-back, simple train system. You can pretty much get anywhere by train there, and depending on how much you're trying to see, it might take a lot longer to do that part by car. Maybe check out the Eurail pass specific to Italy.
DeleteOk as you can tell by this insane novel, I love babbling about this stuff. If I haven't scared you off and if you have any other questions as you finalize your plans, feel free to shoot me an email (jreschke89@gmail.com). I'm seriously so excited for you. Europe trips definitely live up to the hype!